Under the epidemic, long-distance couples who cannot see each other for a longer time, this is really difficult!
For long-distance couples, do you have the following situation?
Missing important moments in their lives:
During the entire epidemic period, he cultivated new hobbies, made new friends, and developed a waistcoat line, and these important moments in his life could only be watched from afar, which inevitably made people feel at a loss.
Losing interest in sharing:
Whenever you want to share life, due to the limitations of communication methods, information delivery is not timely, so that people can not get positive feedback, and over time lose interest in sharing life with ta.
Loss of faith in the future:
The anxiety caused by suspicion and a sense of diminishing trust; Fear of fading, fear of loss; Confused about the future, no hope, loss of emotional confidence.
Feeling independent and no longer in need of love:
When I was in the transformation, I found that I could go through these hardships with my own strength, and it seemed that he had become a dispensable person in my life.
Distance from the space, so that couples can not personally feel each other’s life status, can only rely on virtual space to communicate, which brings a lot of pressure and insecurity to both sides.
The sudden epidemic situation makes it even more difficult for long-distance couples to meet, and even the long-agreed meeting will fall through because of the epidemic, and this excitement and expectation are suddenly shattered, which casts a shadow on long-distance couples.
At this time, we need to “correct the disease”, even if we can not get along face to face, but also to let each other participate in their lives as much as possible. For example, many long-distance couples make it a habit to say goodnight to each other every night; Regularly make video calls, and then do their own things while making video, so that there is no pressure to talk, and more attention to the company of ta;
Or on the Internet to choose a favorite small game to play together; Or record a voice of the other party as a ringtone. In this way, the other person is included in their life, so that they have a greater presence in their life.
In addition to the above psychological, physiological needs also need to be met, food sex also!
In order to solve the physiological needs of the majority of couples, Xingqu classroom specially launched a new course to help everyone happily through this darkest moment.
